Home equity guide

Four ways to put your home to work — and how to pick yours

Reviewed July 2026

For most homeowners heading into retirement, the house is the biggest asset on the board — often bigger than the 401(k). There are four main ways to turn that value into money that funds the next chapter. Each one is right for somebody, and wrong for somebody else. Here's the honest version of each.

The four options at a glance

OptionBest when…Watch out for
Reverse mortgage (HECM)You're 62+, staying in the home long-term, and want monthly income or a standby credit line with no required monthly payment.High upfront costs; the balance grows over time; heirs inherit less. HUD-approved counseling is required — use it.
HELOCYou have steady income for payments and want flexible funds for projects or a safety net you may never draw.Variable rates; payments can jump when the draw period ends; the bank can freeze the line.
Cash-out refinanceYou want one lump sum and can get a rate at or below your current mortgage rate.Restarts the clock on your mortgage; closing costs; a higher monthly payment for years.
Sell and simplifyThe house is bigger than your plans need, or the equity would fund the lifestyle better as cash — travel, a lock-and-leave condo, a place near the grandkids.Moving costs and emotions are real; run the numbers on where you'd live next before listing.

Start with the plan, not the product

The right choice depends on what the money is for. A one-time kitchen renovation, monthly income that outlasts savings, and buying the lake cabin are three different plans with three different best answers.

  • One-time expense, comfortable making payments: HELOC or cash-out usually beats a reverse mortgage on cost.
  • Monthly income gap, staying put 10+ years: a reverse mortgage deserves a serious look — after counseling.
  • The house no longer fits the plan: selling may free more money and more freedom than any loan.

Estimate your numbers

Use the calculator below for a rough, educational picture of what each option could unlock. It's an illustration, not a quote — lenders will run exact numbers.

Home equity options calculator

Straight answers to the big questions

Will a reverse mortgage make the bank own my house?

No. You keep the title, just like any mortgage. The loan (plus interest) is repaid when you sell, move out for good, or pass away — usually from the sale of the home. What's true: the balance grows over time, so there's less equity left for you or your heirs later.

What actually costs less — a HELOC or a cash-out refinance?

For a one-time expense when you can make monthly payments, a HELOC usually wins on closing costs and flexibility, while a cash-out refi can win if you can also improve your first mortgage rate. A reverse mortgage typically costs more upfront than either — its advantage is no required monthly payment, not price.

Do I have to be a certain age to use my home equity?

HELOCs and cash-out refinances have no age requirement — they're underwritten on income, credit, and equity. The FHA reverse mortgage (HECM) requires the youngest borrower to be at least 62; some proprietary reverse products start at 55.

Is the reverse mortgage counseling session worth it?

Yes — and it's required by HUD before you can apply for a HECM. It costs around $125-$200, takes about an hour, and a good counselor will run your exact numbers against alternatives. We'd recommend it even if it were optional.

Talk to a licensed specialist about your options

We're finishing agreements with a small group of providers we're willing to put our name behind. Quote requests open soon.

In the meantime, the guides on this page cover how to compare options and spot a bad quote — so you're ready before anyone picks up the phone.